I know, I know easier said than done, right? I’m so guilty of second guessing myself, analysis paralysis, whatever you want to call it. We all do it, because society has taught us that no matter what we are doing, no matter how good we are at what we are doing we could never possibly be good enough at it because there is always someone that is better at it.

Now that may be true, but that doesn’t mean that you aren’t good enough. You posses something that absolutely NO ONE else has, and that is your personality. You are good enough, you are smart enough and you are capable of whatever it is in this life that you want, but you have to believe it first. 

Seriously, when you stop comparing yourself to others great things can happen. How do I know? Because I am, or was the queen of comparisons, until I realized there is only one Brittiany Renee Gipe. Nobody else has my, or your special superpower, the secret sauce of your life- you, and whatever it is that makes you, you.

So just do your thing, don’t overthink it. Promise yourself that everyday you will do at least one thing that scares you. When you get out of bed in the morning give yourself a compliment, seriously wake up and say something nice to yourself, yes say it out loud.  I promise you that the nicer you are to yourself and the less you compare yourself to others, the better your life will get.

Now will this happen overnight? Of course not, the best things take time. Commit to 30 days of compliments, 30 days of doing something that scares you, 30 days of being your best self. If you can commit to that you will really begin to notice your life change, you will wake up feeling good about yourself, even on hard days, being nice to yourself will become second nature. Treat yourself how you know you deserve to be treated. 

XO-

Brittiany